Thankfully, no. Despite many people discouraging my decision to marry, I have no regrets.


 I met my husband when I was 16, and he was 23. He proposed when I turned 18, but my father asked us to wait until I was at least 20. So, we got married two years later.


My husband’s father didn’t approve of our relationship, and my friends warned me that I was giving up my youth and would regret it. But they were wrong. From the moment we got married, I’ve felt deeply loved and have loved him just as much. Together, we’ve built a beautiful life, raised 3 kids, welcomed several dogs into our home, and shared countless memories.


I graduated a year after we got married, and we both pursued our Master’s degrees at the University of Texas at Austin with the help of scholarships. Later, I earned another Master’s degree and established a successful career, but I always prioritized my family. Afternoons were for my kids, and evenings were reserved for my husband. He loves dining out, watching movies, and spending quality time together, and I cherish those moments.


Marrying him was the best decision of my life. After 20 amazing years together, I can only dream of 20 more.

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